What to do when you don’t know what to do

Let me save you some time.

Throughout the span of your life, you will often be challenged to do something you’ve never done before.

When a moment like this comes, take a deep breath, and take it one step at a time.


Today for work I needed to complete a couple of tasks I had never done before.

Instead of just finishing them, I kept on pushing them back. When I looked back down at them, hours had passed.

That’s when I realized that I had mental resistance to completing them.

When I looked at them earlier in the morning and outlined my to-do list, I ignored the part of me that wasn’t confident in completing the tasks.

That was my mistake.

After naming the problem, I found my solution: create a step-by-step process for myself.


When you’re not sure how to do something, I’ve learned that taking it one tiny step, or task at a time is immensely helpful.

For example: when I was starting my podcast and everything was new to me, I created a step-by-step process so I couldn’t get overwhelmed by the idea of the whole thing.

Record, outline title, outline description, log into Buzzsprout, upload…etc.

Step-by-step, one foot/task after another. Then eventually, you look back from the finish line and realize that it wasn’t difficult.

At that point, doing it again becomes a piece of cake.